Remember back to your dating days—the excitement you felt? Now you can reclaim that same spark, connection, and creativity in your marriage through ten intentional, memory-making dates. 10 Great Dates is an award-winning marriage education program program that helps couples recharge the fun and conversation in their relationship.

The concept is simple: first, couples meet together as a group. Each session begins with a meeting at Catholic Charities' Marriage Counseling Center, where the theme for that particular date is introduced in a 15 minute marriage skills video.

Then, couples go out with their partner on a "great date" of their own, where they integrate the skills learned in the video to communicate better, process anger and resolve conflicts, appreciate differences, encourage each other, develop spiritual intimacy, balance busy lifestyles and much more.

Archbishop Timothy Dolan, archbishop of New York, and Rabbi Harlan J. Wechsler, founding Rabbi of Congregation Or Zarua in New York City, co-hosted a live radio special on Sirius XM Radio focusing on the Catholic and Jewish Holy Days and the importance of nurturing tradition in an increasingly secularized world.

You can view two video exerpts from the program:  Archbishop Dolan and Rabbi Wechsler discussing the importance of community in Catholicism and Judaism, and the challenges that communal religions face in a society that emphasizes individualism and both respond to the question: Is there a war on Christmas?

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Bishop Edward U. Kmiec, bishop of Buffalo, has appointed Sister Mary McCarrick, OSF, interim diocesan director of Catholic Charities of Buffalo. She is the first woman religious to serve in the role of diocesan director of Catholic Charities.

Sister McCarrick, a member of the Catholic Charities Board of Trustees since 2007, will serve in the role while Monsignor Joseph J. Sicari is away on medical leave. Msgr. Sicari has been on leave since September. Sister McCarrick, whose immediate responsibility will be the oversight and direction of the annual Appeal, will begin working full time with the organization in mid-January. She also will be involved in mission integration, board development and social policy advocacy.

St. Joseph Cathedral, 50 Franklin St., Buffalo, has scheduled a number of celebrations for the Christmas season. 

Thursday, December 24
4:30 p.m. – Vigil Mass of the Nativity
Midnight – Mass of the Nativity, Bishop Edward U. Kmiec, celebrant
Friday, December 25
8 a.m. – Mass of Christmas Day
10:30 a.m. – Mass of Christmas Day, Bishop Kmiec, celebrant

HIgh winds and blowing snow have prompted the closing of the Catholic Center in downtown Buffalo on Thursday, Dec. 10.

By a vote of 38-24, the New York State Senate voted against the legalization of same sex marriage.  The vote was taken on Wednesday (Dec. 2)

New York State Catholic Conference Executive Director Richard E. Barnes made the following statement today regarding the defeat of a bill in the New York State Senate by a vote of 38-24 that would have allowed people of the same sex to “marry” each other:

“On behalf of the Bishops of New York State, we are extremely pleased and grateful that the New York State Senate in a bipartisan vote rejected the concept that marriage can be anything other than the union of one man and one woman."

"To whom much is given, much is expected." We have all heard this phrase and countless people in the diocese live it in a conscientioius manner.

We see this generosity played out every day, and more so during the Thanksgiving and Christmas seasons. I am extremely grateful for this abundnance of generosity. I see it in our parishes, in our schools and in a most visible way, through the support of Catholic Charities. That generosity allows others to share in the joy that so many take for granted at this time of year.

From www.bpdny.org

Buffalo police are warning people to be aware of their surroundings - and their property - even while attending worship services. There has been an unusual amount of larcenies from churches reported in the recent past, that has prompted police to warn the church-going public.

In some cases the victim has been distracted, or left the church pew to receive communion, when the theft occurs. Sometimes the entire purse is stolen, and in other instances items are removed unbeknownst to the owner. "Oftentimes these types of crime aren't discovered until the victim is looking for a credit card or driver's license, and realize they were targeted," said Dennis J. Richards, Chief of Detectives.

Bishop Bernard J. McLaughlin, auxiliary bishop emeritus of the Diocese of Buffalo, celebrated his 97th birthday on Nov. 19.  Bishop McLaughlin has been a priest for 73 years and a bishop for 40 years.

Born in North Tonawanda, NY, in 1912, Bishop McLaughlin is the oldest diocesan priest in the Diocese of Buffalo.  He was ordained to the priesthood on Dec. 21, 1935, at Lateran Basilica in Vatican City.  Pope Paul VI ordained him a bishop on Jan. 6, 1969, making Bishop McLaughlin the first priest from Buffalo to be ordained a bishop by the Holy Father.

WASHINGTON—The challenges of clergy transfers between churches stood as a key topic at the annual Polish National Catholic-Roman Catholic dialogue, this year at the Polish National Catholic Church (PNCC) Center in Scranton, Pennsylvania, September 28-29. Bishop Edward U. Kmiec of Buffalo and Bishop Anthony Mikovsky of the Central diocese of the PNCC co-chaired the meeting.

Members held a lengthy discussion on proposed recommendations about difficulties that arise when a clergyman transfers from one church to the other. A proposed text was refined and a process of consultation with appropriate bodies in the two churches will now be undertaken. Further revisions resulting from these consultations will be considered at the next meeting.